You have been dating for a long time and you know that she's the one. The next step is to make it official by proposing. While proposing can be a nerve-wracking experience, the following tips will ensure that the proposal goes off with(out) a hitch.
1. Get the proper OKs before you move ahead
While we're sure that she dreams day and night about being your wife, we recommend testing the waters before you jump in. If you haven't already, it may make sense to talk about your plan for the future and the timeline that you envision for that plan. If she is thinking that she'll finish school before you pop the question, you would want to know that ahead of time. It is also traditional to ask the bride's father for his permission prior to proposing.
2. Write the perfect proposal
Each of us has a different style when it comes to preparing a speech. While some like to have everything written down, others prefer to 'wing it'. Whatever your preference, we recommend preparing at least part of your proposal upfront (to ensure that you don't get flustered in the moment). The typical proposal will include a reference to the times you've enjoyed together, and a statement about your future as a married couple. We have also heard of proposals including funny inside jokes, (slightly) embarrassing moments, and original poetry.
3. Decide where to propose
Choosing where to propose is one of the most important decisions in the proposal process. Whether you stay close to home (or actually at home) or you include the proposal as part of a larger vacation, finding the ideal proposal location requires some thought. We recommend choosing a place that has significance in your relationship and will logistically make sense. As great as it would be to propose at the top of Mount Kilimanjaro, if you aren't both athletic, your dream proposal may not go as planned. Some classic proposal locations are at a beach, in a special restaurant, or over a romantic picnic. Wherever you decide, just be sure to make it an unforgettable moment.
Your proposal is one of the major milestones in your life together. Make it as great as possible by following these three tips. Oh, and congratulations in advance!